Definition of happy and successful life

 Chapter 1

Definition of a Happy and Successful life



We all have formed our own definitions of happiness right from childhood. A lot of these 

perceptions are because of conditioned development i.e. they are a part of our habits due 

to repetitive inculcation by parents, teachers and the society in general. That is why, none 

of us has actually pondered about what exactly makes us feel happy! This feeling has 

been left to our sub-conscience and we simply feel the happiness according to the 

situation we are in.

A lot of small things can give happiness to us. For instance, just the thought of shopping 

or spending money tends to excite us and makes us feel happy. Opportunities and new 

ideas also have a similar effect on us. This excited state makes us imagine things related 

to these incidents. For example: the perspective of going on vacation while getting an 

office bonus would not only make us excited, but also make us plan and imagine the 

holiday. In fact, we would feel the bliss without actually being on the vacation itself! 

However, when being on the actual vacation, the excitement tends to settle down as one 

begins to feel contented. 

Same is the case with objects. We are quite crazy to purchase the latest cell phone, 

laptop, I-pod or the new car. But once we own that stuff, the excitement settles down and 

the appeal doesn’t stay the same. The cycle of excitement begins again when another new 

product is launched. 

Let’s pause for a second here and seriously think about our domain of happiness. Is it 

pertained to acquiring latest objects only? Does it end at wishes being fulfilled? Is our 

domain of happiness limited to spending good time with family or friends only? We are 

so involved in this cycle of wishes that we actually forget to see what real happiness is 

and how it can be achieved.


The domain or definition of happiness varies for every individual as they have their own 

individual needs. For some people, achieving a good career path provides happiness. For 

some, it is their fulfillment of goals and objectives where as bringing happiness on the 

face of the deprived can give some people happiness. 

However, everybody doesn’t have it easy in this world. Our income, education, family, 

environment, society and friends all affect our domain of happiness. We might not 

always have the desired income needed to fulfill the wishes or may be the career isn’t 

going as smooth as we had planned. So what does it do to us? Does it burst our balloon of 

hope and excitement or does it renew our hopes, makes us clear our visions and set ahead 

for the future with new motivation? How do you react when things don’t turn out as you 

had planned? Most importantly, is your reaction appropriate or do you need to change 

your attitude and perception?

This book is all about ‘you’ and how you can change dimensions in order to look ahead 

to a better future. The upcoming chapters are a complete guide so that you can set 

yourself in a new direction. After all, success is all about having the right paradigm shift!




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